by In a world brimming with stories, there are those who possess a unique ability to traverse between realms, embarking on countless adventures without leaving their chair. Today, we have the honor of introducing you to one such literary voyager — Brenda Kageni. With a passion for books that burns bright and an insatiable curiosity for the written word, Brenda is an avid book reader who has embarked on journeys to far-off lands, ages long past, and realms of imagination that only literature can unlock. Join us as we dive into the world of this dedicated reader, uncovering the stories that have shaped their perspective and the insights they’ve gleaned from their literary odysseys.
Origins of the Reading Passion:
● Can you take us back to the beginning? When did your love for reading first ignite, and what are some of your earliest memories of being captivated by a book?
My first memory of reading is being able to read a church plaque at age five. This was pretty amazing since I grew up in a rural setting where reading in English wasn’t really taught until Grade 4.
After that there was no stopping me. I was thirsty for stories and by age 9 I was reading everything I could lay my hands on — John Kiriamiti, Sidney Sheldon, upper classes English course books, friends story books, my auntie’s adult-rated novels by James Hardley Chase… Unfortunately for the whole of my life until the explosion of the internet, there was always not enough material for me to read. This is why I believe community libraries are a great idea, although I’m not sure how this plays out in the Information Age.
Favorite Literary Genres
● What genres resonate with you the most, and why do they hold a special place in your heart?
Initially I was into fiction. Once I picked a fiction work, I would find it hard to put it down till I was done. I would trans-night for a novel.
Later I delved into self-help a bit but my tastes got a bit more discerning with time.
Lately I’m reading a lot of theology and psychology content because that’s where the thirst for knowledge has led me.
● Could you recommend a book from your favorite genre that you believe has the power to change perspectives or lives?
That’s a hard one. I can’t remember any. May be I should be doing more book reviews.
Which is the most amazing book I’ve ever read? Experiencing God at Home by Richard and Tom Blackaby. I borrowed it from a friend and refused to give it back. I’d rather compensate him. I recommend it highly for all Christian parents.
Literary Exploration:
● As an avid reader, you’ve likely encountered a multitude of authors and styles. Are there any literary discoveries that caught you by surprise, leading you to explore new horizons?
Reading Dan Brown books at the university led me into reading apologetics books because I needed to have lucid answers for his kind of arguments.
Impactful Reads:
● Could you share a book that profoundly influenced your thinking or provided a fresh outlook on life?
“Wisdom for Mothers” and “Freedom for Mothers” both by Denise Glenn. They gave me courage and base as a mom. I’m a more peaceful confident mom.
Another book that gave me the courage to pray audacious prayers is the Circle Maker by Mark Patterson. This is a book I pick up when I need to borrow faith.
● How did this particular book shape your perspective or inspire personal growth?
The Denise Glenn books — I was parenting by trial and error, passing on my childhood trauma and wrong patterns. These two books led me to evaluate my life, heal from my wounds and parent for God’s glory, not my self-esteem.
Reading Rituals:
● Many readers have unique habits or rituals associated with their reading time. What are some of yours? Do you have a favorite reading spot or time of day?
I walk around with a book in my bag; it helps when I’m stuck somewhere waiting.
But in adulthood reading is not easy. I became quite the book buyer but not the reader. Someone joked that buying books and reading are two different hobbies and I agree. I also have this annoying habit of not finishing books.
So I have become very intentional about trying to finish the book I start no matter how dry it gets at some point. But being part of a reading club has brought the most fruit. Ours is called 48 Books and the original vision was to read 48 books in a year but hey, it’s good to have a big vision.
Book Recommendations:
● Our readers are always eager to expand their literary repertoire. Could you suggest a few must-read books that have left a lasting impact on you?
In high school we had these tiny books from Dr George Kaitholil’s target series. They were focusing on how to develop beauty, peace, patience etc. I think they are great for preadolescents and adolescents.
But the only must-read book I know is the Bible. There are seasons you will make much of it, other times you just plough through, but keep reading and rereading. It’s alive and active. It’s like water, washing and nourishing. It’s light for our feet. Read Psalsms when you can’t find the words to pray. Read Romans when you need to understand your faith. Read John for the simplicity of the gospel. Read the parables and stories of Ruth and Rahab and Samuel with your kids as bedtime stories. The Bible is rich.
Balancing Life and Reading:
● In a busy world, finding time for reading can be a challenge. How do you manage to balance your reading passion with other aspects of your life?
I’m intentionally switching social media time with a physical book. It’s hard because social media is a rabbit hole. But I try to read a few pages before bed. I also read a lot of random stuff on the internet when I’m free. When I’m curious about a topic, I google it and go all academic on it. I wish I retained as much info as I gobble up.
Book-Related Goals:
● Are there any literary goals you’re currently pursuing? Whether it’s a specific reading challenge or a desire to explore a certain theme, we’d love to hear about it.
To finish reading all the books on my bookshelf. To read each book I pick up cover to cover. To write notes from what I’m reading and write book reviews.
Book Community and Sharing:
● Engaging with fellow readers can enhance the reading experience. Do you actively participate in book clubs or online reading communities? How do these interactions enrich your reading journey?
I study theological books with the group 48 Books and since we are all lay men, it helps us make much more sense of the material. And because the content can get heavy and academic, having accountability helps me plough through hard-to-read books. I’m grateful for that.
I read parenting books with another group of ladies called Wisdom Mothers, inspired by the Denise Glenn books. We have transitioned from being a book club to great friends, prayer partners, my inner circle. See God’s providence.
Parting Shot
● As a devoted reader, what advice or encouragement would you offer to those who are looking to cultivate a deeper love for reading or embark on their own literary adventures?
Find what you like to read, or an author you enjoy and read that; even if it’s two pages a day. Don’t follow trends and peer pressure. You won’t believe how many Top Sellers I have never read! But I read what I need.
I appreciate that I am wired to take in information through reading but if podcasts are your thing, or videos, don’t feel boxed in on where you get your information from. No one is measuring.
As we embark on this captivating journey into the heart and mind of an avid book reader, let us anticipate the shared joys, inspirations, and discoveries that await, underscoring the magical connection that books weave among kindred spirits. Stay tuned for the upcoming profile, where we celebrate the extraordinary world of reading through the eyes of a devoted literary explorer.
This is awesome. Am challenged to read and not give up, always carry a book and read a few pages before going to bed. I admire the honest not to look good but to share with us. I sense that there are seasons and interest keep changing or shifting for each season.
Thank you Brenda Kageni and the interviewer.